"SLC-S24/W5 - Thoughts and reflections.

Hello my dear steemian friends.

I am very happy today to participate in this competition Steemit Challenge S24W5 | Powerful Debate/ Thoughts and reflections by my dear friend @fannyescobar in Ladies Universe.

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It was around 2 o'clock in the afternoon. In the air-conditioned office located on the 3rd floor of a multinational company, everyone was busy with their work as usual, but Ruby was lost in some thoughts in her cabin. Ruby is a very beautiful 35-year-old married woman. As she has told her colleagues, she had a love marriage with a boy from another religion 3 years ago. Ruby also has a 1-year-old daughter.

Ravi sits in another cabin in the same office. This cabin is right next to Ruby's cabin. Therefore, he often keeps an eye on Ruby's activities. Ravi must be around 36 years old and he is very impressed with Ruby's beauty.

Seeing Ruby in trouble for a long time, he went to her and asked "You are very upset today, can I know the reason for this?

Ruby knew that Ravi was a good man, she could trust him, tears came in Ruby's eyes and she told Ravi that "tomorrow I am going to divorce my husband in court." "Actually I married a boy of another religion without the consent of my parents, that's why no one comes to help me."

Ravi asked Ruby again "What happened in 3 years that you both have decided to divorce, anyway you had a love marriage."

Ruby said "Will you come with me to the court tomorrow? I will tell you my whole story in detail there."

Ravi gave his consent to come to the court.

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The court was crowded like usual, there was still time for Ruby's case to be heard, Ruby's husband had reached the court, but both of them did not talk to each other, Ruby's husband just kept staring at her with angry eyes. In a short time, their case was heard and the judge approved the divorce with the consent of both. Ruby started crying bitterly inside the court. Ruby's husband went away from there looking at her with indifferent eyes. Ravi and Ruby came out of the court and sat in a restaurant.

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Ravi asked Ruby while drinking tea "Yes, now tell me what happened that things got so bad?" Ruby said while sobbing "My husband was from another religion, but he did not tell me this before, then after marriage when I came to know, it did not matter to me, but I was a little upset by his deception, then I told my husband very clearly that I will neither change my religion nor will I ask him to do so".

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"He told me a lot of lies about his parents' financial situation, and he himself was not working, he was also having affairs with many other women."

He always used to take a lot of money from me on the pretext of starting a new business for himself, when I did not give him money he used to beat me."

"I could not tell all these things to anyone because I married him against my family, and my relationship with my parents and siblings was already broken." "He tortured me a lot financially, mentally and physically." So my tolerance level was over.
" After a few days, he started pressuring me to convert to his religion and adopt his way of worship, and then our fights started"

" He used to spend all my earnings on his debauchery, alcohol consumption and other women, he did not even love my daughter, he had made my life hell"

Ravi consoled her and said "Now forget what has happened and try to live your life, all this happens by God's will" Now focus on the future of your innocent daughter.

This story is a true story, I have only changed the names of the characters in it, and have refrained from writing many things that can hurt someone's religious sentiments.

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Should we experience life to mature our character?

Actually when we are young, we are intoxicated with love and youth, we do not listen to anyone, whereas our parents who are mature with experience can give us the right advice, we should take our decisions with maturity and thought, and must follow the advice of our parents or elders. Parents and elders of the house always think about your good. And we should take decisions in our life very thoughtfully and maturely.

How can we tell if someone is trying to take advantage of our good heart?

In youth we don't know who wants to take advantage of us, at that time we don't understand these things and when we understand it, it is too late, that is why we should always take advice from our well-wishers or elders. Or we should not easily fall in the trap of someone's sweet talk.

Finally, looking at my experiences and such cases happening in the society, I would like to give only one advice to the youth, that they should focus only on their career, do not easily fall in anyone's false and sweet talk, before falling in love or marrying someone, know about him/her and his/her background well. And to those who have faced such deception, I just want to say that forget what has happened and move ahead strongly in your future life, the world does not stop with someone's coming and going, :The show must go on"

Now I inviting my friends. @crismenia @aspiya @mvchacin @sariana23

Thanks for reading my post

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