SLC -S24/W4 - Powerful Debate / Deal or No Deal
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Hello friends and welcome to my article, I would be sharing my thoughts in my participation of the SLC: S24/W4 Immediately.
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I would definitely be selecting no deal. The special financial burden of the family should be shared if I'm asked. It is crucial to know that building a family requires effort of both parties. The man and woman are the basic pillars of the family. In cases where the husband is the bread winner and only winner in the home it's quite expedient that he step into those big shoes. He must assume the office immediately showing a sign of how responsible he is. This should be done without hesitation.
Importantly, if the woman is the breadwinner or let's say is more financially stable she must endeavor to perform the task without hesitation from a place of understanding and as a help mate. It all depends on understanding and placing of priorities. In order for a better home growth and stability. It is expedient that she fills those shoes not as a responsibility but to act as a pillar to make the family stand. Therefore saying this it's no deal.
Ideally in the home the woman acts as the neck or support, this is figuratively the support to the head with is the man or breadwinner. In this case it eases off the weight and pressure from the man which makes him more proactive and ready to solve issues or problems, start project due to support she contributes, thus growing their financial capacity.
Moreso, sharing the financial burden opens windows of opportunity as the wife could bag various contracts or deals from exploring her intellect in special work forces bagging deals and contracts for the family and connecting her husband to more chances of making money eventually and growing financial capacity.
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From a cultural perspective the man is seen as a "God factor" or Nna anyi in the eastern Nigeria where I come from. He is faced with responsibility of farming, fishing, hunting and bringing proceeds to the home while the woman is the help mate or house wife who is concerned with cooking and cleaning and taking care of domestic needs in the house. In this regard he is to take care of all her needs and financial challenges. He is the God figure head of the family.
It also is a procedure that enables the man track spending while keeping an eye on returns of investment there are likelihood of little or no financial lapses as he is mature to handle them without fear or favor and most especially with discipline. This is most predominant in cases of illitracy or timidity as regarding academic qualification of the woman.
Taking the bull by the horns, in cases where the man travels or leaves the home to a far country without working in the family, How can they feed? How can they pull out resources to make ends meet in such cases? How can she manage her home without the man? That's where the answer to the debate lies.
Conclusively, the family would be washed away by the storm if problems and in cases in which she cannot handle them she can finally resort to looking elsewhere or cheating on her matrimonial bed to make ends meet! That is a strong claim but emphatically the truth. I'm saying this to say it's no deal and therefore the wife contributing to the family finance would be a relative Plan B or backup plan for the family finance Incase the man has some shortcomings or in worse case scenario permanently absent.