SLC- S24/W3 : Powerful Debate Love and Arguments

Hello friends and welcome to my article in the SLC : S24/W3 and would indeed be dropping my opinion on the special matter.

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^{Misunderstanding can happen in a marital relationship, but in that case, should the husband always be the first to say sorry or sorry, or should both of them be the first to say sorry or the mistake should be admitted}

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Misunderstanding is always bound to happen in every relationship. Misunderstanding indeed is a proof of true love and actual care. If Harrison loves Sandra he would definitely have her interest at heart, whenever he spots negativity or a flaw he definitely would be in the best position to highlight it eventually.

In view of this, misunderstanding is a proof if how much partners care about each other, sharing their wins in success and tackling their flaws in cases of mistakes. It is the icing on the cake when it comes to marriage, misunderstanding is conquered it is proof that partners really are in love.

Moreso, I remember as a child when my parents had a misunderstanding and their voices were of some sort getting out of control. My dad always made a respectable statement. He says "We disagree to agree, remember that". This always kept my mum in check, having in mind that it is not hot for quarrel sake but to misunderstanding to understand themselves. I admired that value so much.

Impressively, it would be good to note misunderstanding is naturally and obviously seen in relationships bit approach channeled at it would either make the relationship better in this I say there is no bigger person, one of the couple can say sorry as the case maybe, it all depends on the maturity level of the duo.

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^{Reveal the simple making of your mind and show us that in any quarrel or problem that arises between a couple, the first thing that men do is always admit their mistakes and apologize to their wives in order to keep their relationship intact. Is this right or should the one who is at greater fault first admit his mistakes and apologize to his partner and try to fix the relationship.}

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misunderstanding happens in marriages

Indeed when a group of people go boat rowing it is actually a team effort. If one person doesn't row his side of the boat, the boat might no move effectively or in extreme cases sink. In this I say that there must be mutual efforts when it comes to marriage.

To err is human but to forgive is divine, it is so special to admit mistakes as humans we are not perfect and in most cases prone to mistakes. It is of great importance that partner learn to admit their mistakes and say sorry. It doesn't have to be a big deal.

However, in most cases the man maybe egocentric and audacious wanting his spouse to apologize while the woman on her part full of pride to admit hers. In this case asking parties would be the solution to this. This man literally saying sorry could attract more respect from his spouse. The wife saying sorry would also make her man admire her virtue all the more. To me both parties must be intentional about saying song to make the marriage work out.

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^{Where many people think in or fight to say sorry and their wives should be the first to say sorry and their wives should be the first to resolve conflict and mend relationship, Do you agree with this view or do you think it is different in your case? Express your feelings?}

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couples can apologize to save their relationship

Importantly, it had alot to do with maturity level honestly speaking. A woman could be at fault and yet the man would try sayinh sorry to show how much he values the relationship. On the other hand, the man could be fault but the woman, apologize for the sake of her kids and an empire they have built over the years. I feel it could be any of the two parties.

However, taking responsibility for actions is a great virtue and who ever made the mistake should basically apologize for a better family. The faster you get responsible for actions the better the family gets over time. Therefore, both parties must act mutually to fix the marriage. It must not be the man who would aplolgise but rather whoever makes the mistake at the time. In other words maturity demands you respect your partner.

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^{However, in this case, would it be wise for both husband and wife to admit their mistakes and apologize to each other in order to preserve their relationship or would it be wiser to continue to maintain their egos and continue to cause unrest in the family day after day? Which do you think is right?}

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It would be wiser for both parties to keep their egos aide and focus on building their relationship. It's really difficult to put away pride but then you focus on what is at stake. What yoh are sacrificing for is to worth it? What is the implications? Would your ego make or mar the relationship. These questions mist be answered by the relationship. In view of this they should indeed keep their differences aside keep their ego and admit their mistakes, aplolgise to each other and fix their relationship for the better.

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