SLC-S24/W1 : Tangled Emotions | "The Powerful Conversation"

Hello friends and welcome to my article in the SLC: S24/W1 in this crucial task, I would be explaining in details the needful, by answering these questions.

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"In your opinion, who showed greater emotional maturity during the conversation and what made you feel that way? Was it honest, self control, empathy or something else.

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In my opinion, the wife had a more mature sense of maturity of emotional intelligence, although the husband possessed to an extent, but the wife exhibited greater sense if self control over her emotions. In other words she didn't allow her emotional get the better part of her. She directly showed how hurt she was, highlighting her need for her partner not to cheat or someone who looks elsewhere in marriage.

Moreso, the husband was all defensive, attributing his wife concern to being non- understanding, focusing on justifying his actions than owning up to the responsibility if his bad behaviour. The wife's ability to understand and control her feelings not letting down her guard is a high level of emotional intelligence in symphony with showing empathy for her husband s feelings stressing he would have confided in her than looking elsewhere for advise on marital issues.

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Do you believe that emotional cheating can cause as much or even deeper damage than physical cheating? Where do you think the true betrayal begin. In the heart or the body?

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emotional bond is crucial for lovers

Emotional cheating works way worse because it involves betrayal of trust on a deeper level. Once the love, attention, feelings and bond is shared with someone outside your relationship sharing joy, wins, losses and sorrow with someone outside your partner is indeed a violation of relationship goals, even when done without physical intimacy.

However, physical cheating cuts across emotional cheating. Acts being nursed over time before actions. It deals with physical contact in context during the cheating process, a clear violation of relationship goals. Its important to note that all cheating begins from the heart eventually.

In this it depends on choices, intentions carried out by parties involved whether , physical or emotional contact. Having the temerity to prioritize another's emotions and feelings over your partners indeed it's a violation and causes lots of trust and could ruin relationship on the long run. We must note physical cheating comes from the heart an explosive outburst of emotions this physical cheating is the effect seen from emotional cheating.

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What are some subtle yet powerful signs that emotional distance is growing between partners? Can you spot these red flags before its too late?

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Awkward Silence: There are high tendencies of silence in emotional distancing, the partners tend to be quiet with each other with little it nothing to talk about.

Communication Breakdown: The partners tend to show little interest when communicating, less of eye contact and body language say alot of communication breakdown. There is no more chemistry or magical bond between these partners.

Quest for Alone Time: When emotional distance creeps in there would be more need for alone time the quest to together fades away and this simply means emotional distance is creepy.

Absence of Physical Touch: During this period the insatiable hunger for physical touch finally dies and it is a major sign it emotional distancing creeping in effectively.

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Can love truly survive a deep betrayal? What do you really need to rebuild and reconnect with broken trust?

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love should survive deep betrayal

Love is a strong emotional bond, deep betrayal is likened to a crack in a wall, the crack in a wall, the crack could be plastered if needed. Importantly, it depends on both parties to heal. If a good healing process is observed from one of the parties, indeed it could walk out.

Moreso, there would definitely be a trust issues after betrayal one of the parties involved would definitely have issues trusting the defaulter, but not past healing but definitely reducing trust again. Thus is a major difficulty in relationships. Definitely love can survive deep betrayal but it takes time.

Values to rebuild and reconnect broken trust

Transparency: Subsequently transparency from these partners are values to help rebuild and reconnect broken trust in cases of betrayal.

Active Communication: Even after broken trust, the act if active communication is key to release and reconnect with each other get to know your partner all the more, active communication bring back memories of bond shared and eventually lead to rebuild and reconnection.

Repeated Promises: Bonds are only rebuilt with promises and repeated Promises. This actively builds trust frim partners . You try hard to promise your partner your undying love and commitment to making it work.

Actions Backing Promises: Act of love and activities back up promises made would definitely cause rebuild and reconnection. Actions like buying gifts and other gestures would definitely build a falling relationship due to broken trust.

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If you were a marraige consultant, what advice would you give to couples in the state of heartbreak and healing? Speak from wisdom, experience it even personal pain.

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Importantly, understanding each others core values are crucial, know what makes each other happy, never forgetting to put a smile on each others face. Reminencing over the good memories built overtime. It a crucial to hang in believing in how things would work out eventually.

Healing process is not easy and can be definitely taking a while, do not rush your partner, patience is key, most times and overlook excesses to try to keep the relationship going. Humans are are always humans so try to move on with your partner. Communication remains key too, talk with your partner always and be sensitive to any concern to address it immediately. In doing this it fosters bond and growth basically in the relationship in all this perfection could be achieved.

I have concluded my article and invite @pandora2010 @casv @ruthjoe @josepha to join challenge