Hello My Steemain Friends ,

How are you. I hope you people of steemian are good and enjoy your life . Well I am well. May God bless you all. Today I am writing about an interesting Steemit Engagement Challenge S24- W6: which is all time my favourite topic “Powerful Debate - Yes or no/pros and cons" this amazing challenge organised by @alexanderpeace . So, in this post I am going to share my point of view about this topic.

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I choose Task 2: Trust & Loyalty

Any relationship survives betrayal or misbehavior only when both the parties have the will and efforts to save that relationship. It takes a lifetime to maintain any relationship without any bitterness. Everyone should be devoted to each other with love, maybe even life is not enough. It is very easy to break a relationship, a wrong word is used and the relationship breaks, but to handle a relationship, a person has to use good words from his dictionary, so that the relationship remains balanced.

When a person reaches that stage of life, when he is alone, then he has to see what he has earned in his entire life. If you are alone then you are at a loss and if you have your family with you then the person says that this is what I have earned in my entire life, this is my wealth. Who does not leave you alone at any stage and in any situation.

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A family where there were four siblings and parents, the father died suddenly. The elder son was Kapil, he was 20 years old at that time, so he started managing the shop and the household expenses were taken care of by him. The other two sisters, one brother were younger and were studying. But the elder brother who took over the shop, started misbehaving with the family members day by day. He did not give any respect to his siblings, as time passed, his behavior was getting more and more dirty. He used to think only for himself. He wanted a lot of respect for himself, but he did not know how to give respect to anyone.

He committed the biggest betrayal with his younger brother Nakul, when the younger brother reached 11th class, the elder brother's dramas started. How will I manage the shop alone, how will I do it, close the shop and come home, so the younger brother thought that I will leave my studies and sit at the shop. If the shop remains safe, there will be no problem at home. This was the biggest mistake of his life, whereas Nakul was the best in studies, he could have obtained any degree if he wanted.

But the elder brother never refused to study, but he created such circumstances that you had to leave your studies on your own. When the younger brother completely started working at the shop, the elder brother's misbehavior started increasing. He started beating the younger brother at the shop, he used to kill his younger brother's soul every day, everyone in the house was afraid of him, even their mother could not say anything against him, because if someone tried to speak, the elder brother would start creating trouble in the house.

The elder brother's misbehavior started increasing day by day that along with misbehaving, he also started betraying. The brother always used to claim his right on his shop which was father's property and despite working hard, the elder brother used to humiliate the younger brother and say that you are eating my bread.

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The hatred for the elder brother was increasing day by day in the younger brother's mind. He used to cry a lot just to save the family and the shop, he could never protest and this was probably his biggest mistake. When the time came to sell the ancestral shop, the elder brother said that I will give you 25% of the property and 75% will remain with me because I am the elder one, then the younger brother was shocked.

The elder brother had already fallen from the younger brother's eyes due to misbehavior, now the betrayal also broke him. Because the elder brother did not let him do anything else and when he was old enough to study, he cheated him of the shop. Then the younger brother fought for his rights through the court, due to which both the brothers got equal division. But the relationship had died in the mind long ago, after the division it died socially as well.

Any relationship is tied with a very weak thread, it may look strong from the outside, but the thread inside is very weak and that thread is based on trust and love. And if there is even a slight decrease in trust and loyalty, it does not take much time for this bond to break. There are many benefits of loyalty and trust in any relationship.

Benefits

• You can tell your heart or your problems without hesitation. When we share our problems with someone, then we face less difficulties in solving that problem and courage also remains.

• There is a belief in the mind that there is someone who loves us with all his heart. And if there is any discussion, he will give the opinion that is in our interest.

• In a relationship where there is loyalty and love, there is no place for show-off.

• Respect is received in such relationships.

• There is no need to use silk cloth to tell anything. Whatever is there, it is told as it is. In such a relationship, one does not feel embarrassed to tell anything.

Disadvantages

• Respect is not received in such relationships where there is no loyalty and love.

• They use your own words against you in front of outsiders.

• One should always be cautious of such people. Such people twist things and turn everyone against you.

• Such people never hesitate to cheat and can hurt your feelings.

• Such relationships don't last long.

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Thus we have seen how important it is to have love and loyalty in relationships. What are the benefits of having love and loyalty and what are the disadvantages of not having it. These relationships are very important.In any relationship, it is very important to have a balance of love, trust and loyalty from both sides. It does not take long for a beautiful relationship to be ruined by a little cunningness of people. Like I told in my story how the relationship of two brothers ended only because of the ego of the elder brother Kapil.

I want to invite my friends to take part in this contest: , @sduttaskitchen , @suboohi , @max-pro , @radjasalman"

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