Hello My Steemain Friends ,

How are you. I hope you people of steemian are good and enjoy your life . Well I am well. May God bless you all. Today I am writing about an interesting Steemit Engagement Challenge S24- W5: which is all time my favourite topic “Powerful Debate/ Thoughts and reflections" this amazing challenge organised by @fannyescobar . So, in this post I am going to share my point of view about this topic.

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There was a girl Meenu, who had no father and whose financial condition was also not so good. That girl was married to a boy named Mukesh, she had 6 sisters and 3 brothers. Their house was like a mansion, it was ancestral, they looked rich. The boy said yes as soon as he saw the girl. The marriage was done happily.

The marriage was done in another city, the girl entered her new life happily with dreams. When the marriage was fixed, the thought came to everyone's mind that the boy is very handsome and seems to be rich too, then why did he say yes to marry a simple looking and poor girl. The thought used to come to mind, but then I became proud of my fate, did God listen to me. When the girl reached her in-laws after marriage, then it was known how much disunity there was in such a big family. The boy's mother lived with them.

But their whole family looked down upon Meenu. Even Mukesh used to taunt her on every matter, you are from a poor family, I did you a favour by marrying you. Meenu used to cry a lot, she was not even able to talk to her family members. Just once she told her sister that these people talk like this, then Meenu and her sister were forced to think that who had pleaded with them to get married.

Despite this kind of behaviour, Meenu was giving full respect to her in-laws, but their taunts never ended, while Mukesh's financial condition was not very good, the boy used to drink, abuse and even beat Meenu. Meenu kept trying to make her husband happy with her somehow. Even then her husband never praised her.

But it seemed that Mukesh did not have a heart in his heart. It was not understood why he hated Meenu so much, when he did not like the girl then what was the need to marry her. Days passed like this, Meenu became mother of two daughters. But there was no change in her husband's behavior, Mukesh used to abuse the girls along with Meenu.

Now Meenu's patience was slowly breaking, in any relationship both should give their best. But here Mukesh was not giving her anything in the relationship, whereas Meenu had sacrificed everything. Mukesh even made Meenu leave her maternal home, stopped talking to her. Even then Meenu did not say anything, it was Meenu's brother's wedding, even then he did not let her go. But it is said that excess of anything is not good.

Slowly Meenu started understanding that she has no respect in Mukesh's life, so Meenu slowly started rebelling, so many times Meenu tried to commit suicide, but he always stopped after seeing his children's face. Meenu's whole life was ruined because of Mukesh.

Husband and wife give everything to each other, only then love grows, trust grows, so we will not call it a mistake. But yes, this exchange of love and trust should happen from both sides. So that the trust becomes stronger because if the relationship weakens from even one side, then the foundation of the entire relationship shakes. The relationship should never be done in such a way that the relationship starts feeling like a burden.

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Meenu even put aside her self-respect for her husband. She even left her maternal home, even after that her husband was not happy. It is a simple thing, to get respect, it is necessary to give respect. If this does not happen, the relationship weakens and one day it breaks. Mukesh's ego ruined his household.

Absolutely, when you give everything to your partner, tell them your little things, then sometimes they use these things to hurt your feelings. Because they know everything about you, which thing will hurt you the most and what thing can break you, never tell your weakness to anyone,, so that he can dare to hurt you.

If we tell all our things to someone, then he tries to take advantage according to his own. Because everyone looks for their own benefit and by misusing the things told by you, he can also turn someone against you. Therefore, any step should be taken only after testing every relationship.

When a person is broken from inside, when his soul is pierced and he gets nothing but deception from the front. Then if he tries to stand up with courage, then first of all he has to find out his own self. What was he really like? Because until you do not know your qualities, you cannot fight. So the phrase that will be applicable on this subject is

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"Gathering yourself in self-discovery after being shattered"

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