"SLC-S24/W6 - Powerful Debate | Yes or no/ pros and cons".

afrinn (70)Verified Lady | Bangladeshin Ladies Universe • 3 days ago

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Assalamu Alaikum I hope everyone is healthy and well by the grace of Allah Alhamdulillah I am also healthy and well The theme of the Engagement Challenge is "SLC-S24/W6 - Powerful Debate | Yes or No / Good or Bad". So let's get started.

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task 3 :

★ Communication and Conflict:

Communication and Conflict"—These two topics are very important elements of social and human behavior. If you want a debate, discussion or essay, we will discuss the guidelines on this topic.

Our conflict is reduced a lot through communication. Because if we cannot maintain communication completely, the relationship can never be good. Through this communication, we can speak clearly and openly. Humans are social animals. Therefore, communication is essential in life.
★ Arguments in favor of:
★ Ways to resolve communication conflicts:

Human misunderstanding helps. We often get confused and fall into a lot of conflict. At that time, our biggest tool is communication. Therefore, through communication, conflict
Relationships can be sweet.
🤝 Improves relationships: Communication means exchanging thoughts, which increases the depth of the relationship. When we are angry with a person. Then if we intentionally apologize and create a good relationship. There can be nothing better than this. So I think communication is the highest way for humans through which people can face good behavior. Can.
Opens the way to solve problems: People can easily face dangers and face various problems. So if we have good relationships and communication with people, we can easily get rid of that danger.

★ Arguments against:

★ Communication creates conflict:

Leakage of confidential information: Sometimes we trust people so much through communication that we unknowingly tell our minds. And by spreading those words, we create conflict.
Misunderstanding in excessive digital communication: In our digital age, Facebook, Twitter, WhatsApp, various types of communication media are created from here.
Then we become overly emotional and share many things. Sometimes many people reveal their secrets. Through this, confusion and conflict can arise.
Wrong words or postures create conflict: Unexpected or harsh language increases mutual anger. And sometimes we get hurt by communicating with the wrong people.

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Task 1
Boundaries and Expectations

★ Boundaries:
Boundaries mean setting limits on something – mental, physical, emotional or social boundaries.
For example: Knowing how much someone will love you. Keeping the family and taking responsibility for the family is the boundary commitment.

★ Expectations:
People live with hope and and we hope for others, this is expectation. Every person wants to live with the light of hope. But I think the light of hope is their own family and husband.

★ Arguments for:

Boundaries give people peace. For example, if you hug the boundary, it will tell you to stop. As a result, the disappointment that people would have
been overcome without fear. We certainly get a lot of disappointment when we walk on the street and at home. Boundaries keep the relationship healthy: personal time and freedom are maintained.

★ Arguments against:

There is expectation in love: Without expectation, a relationship is meaningless. Love is so sweet and bright because there is the light of hope in love.
If the love boundary is difficult, then the distance increases. A wall is created in the middle of love. As a result, whether it is a husband and wife or someone else, their relationship is broken.
We live in the world because there is hope. When a husband and wife create a new family. Then their main reason is that their relationship will be sweet and enlightened. That is only through the light of hope and expectation. So we always live with expectation.

A: Craft a debate or a real life story to buttress you point.

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I will create a debate from my real life if it is a true story. I usually get married at the age of 16. It can be called child marriage. My in-laws made me marry their son of their choice. But it is very difficult for a girl to adapt to her in-laws' house. That is exactly what happened to me. If I say that I have always spoken the truth and I believe in and love honesty.

After a few months of marriage, I used to have a fight with my mother-in-law for a long time for no reason. But there is no such person in our house. She will give a solution to it. So my mother-in-law told my husband a lot of things about me, in short, a bad name. Then my husband called me. My husband knew very well that I would never lie to my husband. So my husband started asking me questions on the phone after hearing his mother's words to me. I also started saying some quarrelsome things. Then my husband came to our house from Dhaka to give a solution.

My husband is a very honest man. Family problems happen more or less everywhere. However, after my husband came home, he took both of us in one room and started listening to each other. Here my husband started to discipline me. The reason was that his mother was very sick. So he did not want to hurt his mother by saying anything.

However, in this way he settled our quarrels and gave the right solution. Since then, Alhamdulillah, our wife and mother-in-law have a lot in common, like a daughter and a mother. I love my mother-in-law a lot. My mother-in-law loves me like a daughter. Maybe if we had not found the right solution at that time, maybe our relationship would not have been so beautiful. So I think that for a relationship to be beautiful, good aspects and a good mindset are needed.

pros

People live with bad and good behavior. But people do not always see the bad side, they have to choose the good side. If we praise people repeatedly, that person will definitely love us by praising them. So we need to love people respectfully rather than giving them respect. And we have to win people's hearts with love. For example, I can see my mother-in-law as a much better person now than before. Maybe it is because of my love and mentality.

cons

Honesty is a symbol of love. Without honesty, no relationship will be sweet in life. Through honesty, we can improve our lives. And through honesty, the lives of husband and wife, mother-in-law, and each other will be beautiful and enlightened. So I think honesty is necessary to move forward in life. Without honesty, people become disappointed and confused.