The real fun of winning is when everyone is waiting for you to lose
The society around us is very strange. When you are moving slowly, no one gives it much importance. No one comes and pats your back, or tells you that you can do it. Rather, it seems that many people are silently waiting for you to fall when you lose so that they can say, I told you before, this boy/girl can't do anything.
Being successful in this society doesn't just mean doing something for yourself. It means putting a lock on the mouths of those people who believe that you can't do anything. And that victory, that success, then takes on a completely different dimension.
Just think, when everyone wants you to lose, if you win, how happy, how proud it will be? You didn't just win a trophy, you won respect, self-confidence and courage. Because you know, this path was not very easy. There were many thorns on the road, your life was dragging behind you, and there were doubts and insults all around, yet you moved forward. You did not fall even after stumbling.
Many times, family, friends, and even close people do not believe in our abilities. They think that we cannot do anything great. They break our hearts without knowing it. But if we cannot prove that we will not lose, then that victory becomes the greatest joy of life.
This moment of winning is different. It is not an imagination, it is a real feeling. It is that feeling where you tell yourself that you have succeeded! This is the time when tears come to your eyes, but they are not of sadness, but of joy. Something seems to get stuck in your throat because you know that this path was not easy, no one was by your side, but you succeeded.
Thousands of people in this world lose while trying. But they get up again. Because they believe that a day will come when they will win. And they know that only those who have not given up despite losing repeatedly will understand the taste of victory.
So if you ever see in your life that everyone is waiting for you to lose, don't be afraid. Make their words your stubbornness. Think, the sweetest revenge in this world is success. Because if you succeed, you can light a light not only in your own life but also in the hearts of others.
The most fun of winning is when the people around you believe that you can't. And you prove it right then, that you can.

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