Help Without Hurting: The True Test of Compassion

Friends, many times in life, it happens that you consult people, and people consult you. When you advise someone, they often don't listen and do what they want. And then he fails, he comes to you again, asks for help, and then we do things that we should never do. Our first sentence is always, "I told you not to do that." I knew this would happen. Now I see what fate you have brought upon yourself, what damage you have done to yourself, all these things, this is useless and this is injustice, you are abusing her, you are breaking her heart even more. He knows that he didn't follow the advice he was given. He is already ashamed. He is facing his punishment. He made a mistake. He is ashamed. He knows what you said, that's why he doesn't come to you anymore. Please don't be able to teach him anymore. If you can help, please do. He made the mistake he had to make. You have also made many mistakes in life. No one is free from mistakes. This is how mistakes are made. Most of us make wrong decisions. Humans make mistakes, but there is no need to tell them. Now he needs help; if you can help him, otherwise this insult will hurt him even more. Don't do this. Just remove the sentence from your life. When you make a mistake, you should also do the same. If you can help, please do it.

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The true help is offered without judgment, and that compassion matters more than being “right.” With a little refining, it could read like an inspiring piece of life advice that resonates deeply with many readers.

I am always if the stans that help should be rendered with sentiment and bias, no judgement should be passed while trying to help, this is the best way help can be offered.

Some people feel like God when you run to them for help that's one reason, I keep my problems to myself and find solution by myself without running to anyone for help.