Creating Bonds...
It is funny how people think by being related to you, they automatically have a great relationship with you and the bond of relationship should continue smoothly. This is a wrong assumption, hence the quarrels and fighting, even killings amongst siblings and family members.
The bond in a relationship is grown from whatever background it has. It is our responsibility to build the relationship and nurture the way we want it to be. Bonding is a deliberate effort and it does not happen by chance or by bloodline.
I recently have to share this idea with one of my family members who thought being related to me automatically gives him a special place in my life, I had to tell him he has to build the relationship together with me the way we want it to be, especially if we want the relationship and bond to grow.
The more effort, love and sacrifice you put into the relationship, the more the bond become tighter and the relationship grow faster. This bond is very important because it keeps us together with great trust in ourselves.
Bonding in a relationship is very important.
So instead of complaining about someone you are in a relationship with, you can simply work on bonding with them. Create the bond and make it closer, tighter than it can be.
Thank you for your time...
I have found this to be false. Great relationships even amongst relations take intentionality and consideration of each other to work.
Nothing left to perchance works out.