be "SLC-S24/W6 - Powerful Debate | Yes or no/ pros and cons".
Hello friends I hope you are great today I am here to take part in another interesting challenge that is be "SLC-S24/W6 - Powerful Debate | Yes or no/ pros and cons".
Task 3: Communication & Conflict
Well when when we are communicating of course there are less conflicts because we wanted to solve the things through conversation and polite talks otherwise if we are not doing any gossiping or communication how we can clear the things which are in our mind.
If I talk about relationship between husband and wife regarding conversation it's not so easy because we have to communicate all the time regarding most of the things it doesn't mean we don't have ability to handle it but through communication things become more clear and solved easily rather to become source of conflicts between husband and wife.
Honesty is always the best policy in relationships! Yes
These are not only the words that honesty is the best policy of course it's the best one thing which we can comply in our life and made our life very simple and beautiful most of the time.
But in my point of you the both partners should honest in their opinions and all the life matter so that life become more beautiful and amazing for husband and wife.
If I talk about my personal life I am very honest that I never hide anything for my husband even if I am spending 1 rupees for purchasing anything even I share with him I have done this but I have found he is not such a loyal with me.
He is elder brother at his home and he has to manage many things and I think he doesn't want to share with me and do it silently......so what is the honesty of my in which I always have playing and doing in my life.
I'll do I couldn't change my habit I will remain honest in my life through out because I love him and wanted the life more amazing with him at anyway so sometime we got hurts because tired from the things doing again and again and not getting the rewards of the thing as we wanted it's become highly boring and why just wanted to get ridwai to do but as I have mentioned it's our habit of being honest house we could change it.
but if I see the other aspect of his life what else she can do if is not supporting his family without telling me because he has to do this and sometime I thought he is not sharing with me for helps he thought that this is right he can do anything is man he is husband and his son.
A: Craft a debate or a real life story to buttress you point.
Well one day I had quarrel with my sister in law my husband was not at home and I didn't answer it more because I knew she will have exaggerated the things Infront of my husband and let my position down my father in law was listening all situations he tried to settle down the things but couldn't.
I moved to my room silently as I don't wanted things get prolonged for no reason I called my husband please come to home there is one problem. Well he came back after one hour and her sister told her all matters with exaggeration.
He listened all and called me down you say anything like my sister told about you I said no she is lying, he was quiet for the moment and said go to your room then.
You know why he let me go more easily because he know I am very honest and didn't tell a lie in any matter of life either relationship or any gossiping with others so my honesty works and our relationship didn't get harm from the stupid acts of my in laws.
That's why there were many other instances were the situation happened but he knew I am not the person who is not honest so he told I knew she is not like this don't exaggerated the thing for no use.
PROS (advantages)
Honesty is the best thing which we can apply in our life you know things because very clear very easy and transparent and we didn't need to get the things were you prolong for no use because when we are not honest we have to do certain things to hide the true reality of the life so it's very good if we are transparent in our life at apply the policy of honesty because I have notice the life is more colourful beautiful and relaxing for both partner either it's relationship of husband wife for any other matter of life where we are dealing with honesty.
Cons
The cons which I have experienced in honesty is that other partner should also be loyal with us and apply the role of honesty in life otherwise we get hurt and of course the things are not clear as we present them so the only thing which is not acceptable is if our partner is not honest up to extent we wanted.
Conclusion
So in my point of you for smooth smooth relationship we should apply the principle of honesty in our life so that we can enjoy the real beauty of life rather to get conflicts and making the things unbearable for us for know use.
I would like to invite my friends @m-fdo, @jannat12 and @iqrarana786 to take part in the challenge.