"SLC-S24/W3 - Powerful Debate | Love & Arguments".

Today, the third week of Steemit Challenge 24, I will be participating in @tammanna Ma'ams "SLC-S24/W3 - Powerful Debate | Love vs Arguments". I will be writing about love in today's controversial discussion. I hope everyone will enjoy the article.

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🟥 1st Ans

A relationship is created when two hearts love each other, and it is difficult to keep this relationship from achieving. It takes several days to get to know each other from this love, and if everything is fine between them, they can get married if they want. But falling in love and getting married, and starting a family are not the same thing.

But I will say this from my side. I was in love with a girl for 11 years and married her. During the relationship, we had good times and bad times. This happens to everyone. Sometimes there are good days and sometimes there are hard times; everyone has to go through bad times.

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In my opinion, the importance of a relationship is that he wants to hold on to it more; love is not equal. However, girls' minds are usually soft-hearted and they are very emotional, so they suffer a little. Misunderstandings happen to everyone. Before marriage, we also had misunderstandings and disagreements.

Even if it is her fault as a girl, she thinks it is true in her, but in this case, boys should say sorry to her and make her feel better and bring the fault to the boy. This is not to make herself small, but we have to do it for our happiness.

Relationship is a sacrifice for me, and the more sacrifices he makes, the happier he will be with his life partner. Moreover, when girls get angry, boys are the first to say sorry, and the girl's anger is broken; this is the love of the relationship. I've done it before, and I still do it; it keeps me learning. However, if the innocent person in the quarrel (let's assume the boy is at fault), then if he thinks that I am right, I will not surrender, he keeps his mood, then it has a big impact on the relationship.

🟦 2nd Ans

In the meantime, many times we quarrel over such incidents when we lose our patience, even in my life, there have been many such incidents where I have become very serious in the quarrel. Then I try to control myself, otherwise I go somewhere else because at that time we are very excited and it becomes very difficult to understand whose fault it is, after some time I come to her and say sorry and console her and when she relaxes a little I try to explain the right thing to her.

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Then he, too, can understand it well and starts following it. Through this, the relationship is maintained properly, because if you hurt the girls, they feel a lot of pain. This causes a rift in the relationship. However, when boys say sorry, girls are very happy, which later makes it easy for the girl to understand the right thing. I have been doing this for 11 years while in love with my wife, and this is my real opinion.

🟩 3rd Ans

I have already said that relationships have to be maintained due to sacrifice, there are many things in our life which we have to let go of even if we see them and which is good and which is bad, we have to follow these things all the time and move forward in life, there will be harmony in the relationship so you can never take a bad decision.

You have to understand your good all the time. Every person has personal freedom, in which there are many things that have to be sacrificed, even if they are not liked. Besides, no matter who says sorry after a fight in a relationship, I always see it positively because the relationship is more important to him.

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So, saying sorry in a relationship is not a big deal at all, but rather a noble act. If we can all spend our days happily because of a little sorrow, this is a lot, Everyone wants to live a good life with their loved ones. However, our thoughts are not the same for everyone, some understand a little better, some a little less, so whether they understand good or bad, in that case, at the end of the day, if you want to be happy with your loved one, the one who understands better has to work a little harder to maintain the relationship.

I understand more, but it is not my fault. I will not surrender either, if you do it this way, the relationship cannot be kept for long, but both people have to be aware of this and think about the future and sacrifice both of them.