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Misunderstandings can happen in a marital relationship, but in that case, should the husband always be the first to say sorry or sorry, or should both of them be the first to say sorry The mistake should be admitted.

Reveal the simple thinking of your mind and show us that in any quarrel or problem that arises between a couple, the first thing that men do is always admit their mistakes and apologize to their wives in order to keep their relationship intact. Is this right or should the one who is at greater fault in the quarrel first admit his mistakes and apologize to his partner and try to fix the relationship?

Every relationship in life is built on understanding, respect and responsibility. Marital relationship is no exception. It is not just a place of love or emotion, but also a place of mutual respect. When this relationship is damaged by quarrels, misunderstandings or arrogance, it is the responsibility of both to mend it. But there is still a tendency in our society where it is assumed that the husband should apologize first during a conflict.

Where many people think that in a fight, the husband should be the first to say sorry and their wives should be the first to resolve the conflict and mend the relationship. Do you agree with this view or do you think it is different in your case? Express your own feelings.

This idea is a reflection of the patriarchal mentality of the society. Considering the husband as the ‘elder’, his ‘apology’ is considered as an act of generosity. But can this attitude provide a long-term solution? I think that in the question of apologizing, it is not ‘who first’ but ‘who did the wrong’ that should be the main thing.

However, in this case, would it be wise for both the husband and wife to admit their mistakes and apologize to each other in order to preserve their relationship, or would it be wiser to continue to maintain their egos and continue to cause unrest in the family day after day? Which do you think is right?

If the wife is more to blame, then she should admit the mistake and try to fix the relationship. On the other hand, if the husband has hurt through anger or words, he should first express his regret. Relationship is a team effort—here, a unilateral effort never lasts long.

But, unfortunately, in real life, this lack of understanding between husband and wife creates the biggest crisis. Although they talk about love on their lips, they build walls of pride and ego in their hearts. No one wants to be ‘small’. The result? Not talking day after day, bitterness builds up, and eventually the death of the relationship.

But how easy it could have been—a word of “I’m sorry”, a little understanding, and a little time. Apologizing never diminishes your dignity, but rather shows that you respect the relationship.

Who should give more importance to a child's education, the father or the mother, or should both be given equal importance?

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Now let’s come to another important topic—the education of the child.

The future of the child is shaped by education. But sadly, in our society, the responsibility of the child’s education is still almost entirely placed on the shoulders of the mother.

Among the mixed reactions of parents, is it only the mother's responsibility to educate the child? The father has no responsibility, and if the fathers avoid responsibility in this regard, So what kind of mentality can be developed towards those children?

A small child receives love and affection from his mother at the beginning of his life, but security, confidence, and social sense from his father. When he sees that his father is not interested in his studies, a distance is created in his mind. He learns to think, “My studies are only my mother’s responsibility.” As a result, his emotional relationship with his father weakens.

Where the responsibility of the family's success lies with the father and the father has to earn an income to handle all the details of the family, due to which the father cannot give enough time to the family and his child, is it right? Or if the father cannot take the responsibility of his child's education while earning money, is it right? What do you mean by that?

No matter how hard the mother tries, the child’s full development is not possible if the father is not there. When the two of them together guide a child on the path of education, he becomes a confident, balanced and responsible person.

Therefore, the responsibility for a child’s education is never solely that of the mother or the father, it is a “cooperative responsibility”.

What is the most important thing in a child's education? Both parents should provide them with good education and study on time. In this case, can the child's education and progress improve? Or if the father does not pay attention to education, can the child achieve much more success in education only through the mother's education?

If the father determines himself only to earn money, the child will see him as a neglected and distant character.

In this way, a father becomes an “absent character” in his child’s life, the impact of which can be deep and long-lasting in the future.

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In my opinion, the success of any relationship, be it marriage or the child’s education, depends on mutual responsibility, understanding and cooperation. Apologizing is not about being small, but about having the courage to grow a relationship. And the joint participation of parents in a child's education makes a child a confident person. Because a family is a team—and a team is successful only when each member fulfills their role correctly.

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