Behind the Scenes...

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Day, weeks, months...

It’s been a long time since I was assigned these duties and roles at the Ladies Club. At first it felt exciting, a platform to engage, connect, and contribute. A part of me is always ready to indulge, to show up, to create something memorable. To bring out the creativity they think I have.

But over time the enthusiasm dips. It gets repetitive, at times boring, and often overwhelming. It's an unpaid job, one that's sustained purely by motivation, appreciation, and let’s be honest, the occasional kind word or warm smile.

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There’s no paycheck at the end of the month. What fuels this machine is encouragement, a little recognition, and the joy of shared moments. Without that, even the brightest ideas fade into routine.

And then there’s the people, the “ladies,” as we fondly call them. Beautiful souls, but oh so delicate. Everything matters: tone, timing, delivery. You have to tread gently, sugarcoat criticism, frame suggestions as questions, smile even when you're tired, and never ever be too assertive. Because feelings are always hanging in the balance.

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You learn diplomacy here more than anywhere else. You learn patience. And above all, you learn that what looks like a casual gathering of women is actually a finely tuned web of emotions, egos, and expectations.

But here I am, still showing up. Still doing what needs to be done not because I have to, but because somewhere deep down, I want to. Because I believe that even in the rhythm of routine, there’s purpose. And maybe, just maybe, someone out there is quietly inspired to show up too.